Diogenesister3 minutes ago
Rich is empty. He’s dying and he knows it..... He's terminal and probably has less than 2 years. Most M.S.A. patients live less than 8 years from the onset of the condition.
No family, few friends (I imagine) and, to be frank, he’s needy and he’s becoming bitter. ...Sadly, he is married but they hate each other. She refuses to take him for Doctor visits. He calls me to drive him for his appointments.
Basically he’s acting like he’s in a co dependent relationship with you... He needs his wife as his co-dependent and not me.
Except you don’t seem to be co dependent with him!!!!! Good!... I will help him but that's why he has a wife.
Now I think it’s about time your brother knew about his friends condition... My brother was his slave for him all his life. Whatever the fight is about, I'm sure my brother didn't start it.
Too bad if he doesn’t want your brother to know. He shouldn’t have told you if he didn’t want him to know!!! He’s playing a mean game whereby he’s hoping your brother will find out when It’s too late and be wracked with guilt... Rich asked me months ago if it was alright if he called my brother. My brother refused his phone call.
All this makes him sound like a royal pain in the ass, right? But he must have been fun once upon a time, yes? ....He's overbearing and has an A-type personality.
I really think you should wait a bit, calm down and if and when he apologizes to you accept the apology and make it a condition that he tells your brother, tries to make up with him and starts to take a long hard look at himself and where he’s going... He's asking too much from me. I do enough for him.
Maybe get therapy? Get some professional care so he doesn’t have to rely on one person....otherwise he’ll die alone, and he doesn’t really want that... He's on the outs with his older brother and his twin brother. All 3 brothers haven't spoken to each other since their father passed away 15 years ago due to inheritance money.